by Laura Barns
Any occasion that involves family and food can feel like a minefield for the new or transitioning vegan. And Christmas involves a whole lot of family, and a whole lot of food. Coming from traditionally-British and Irish roots, it’s safe to say that when I went vegan four years ago, my family weren’t quite on board. Because ‘a meal isn’t a meal without meat’, and ‘Christmas without turkey?!’ Forget it. So here’s a guide to getting through the holidays without losing your mind (or upsetting your mum).
Ahh nans. They really are great. They’re always on hand with a tissue, a humbug and a hug. Though unfortunately, if my own nan is anything to go by, they’re also always on hand with lamb chops/fried eggs/lard etc. (and my nan was a twin, so imagine that but doubled… and scarily identical). I always told myself that our grandparents are from a different generation, and that although I don’t agree with them on this, I quietly remind myself I ate everything they cooked for me throughout my entire childhood and there wasn’t a soybean in sight...
First of all, please tell me I’m not the only one whose mum does this. Second of all, remember it comes from a place of love. (For you, and for butter). Especially you, new vegan, you’ll understand just how hard habits are to break. So it’s worth cutting our parents a bit of slack on occasion. Though if you’re worried, offer to help. You’ll earn brownie points with your family, AND you can keep an eye on wayward ingredients. Winning.
Ok, so the whole ‘but where do you get your protein from’/‘don’t you miss cheese’/’are you sure you’re not anaemic’ chat gets old pretty quickly. Especially when you’re used to hearing it all the time. And whilst we can’t stop the inevitable from happening, we can hopefully arm you with a bit of help to avoid a family-Monopoly-game-style meltdown.
*To be honest, that doesn’t sound horrendous. But after a few days, you might start to resemble a chickpea.
At risk of sounding like a scoutmaster, it’s a good idea to go prepared to Christmas events that involve food. One year, I even ordered an online shop to be delivered to my parents’ house which arrived the day I got there. (That was a very good year). We can also help keep freezers stocked up full of the good stuff. Check out our menu and place your order as late as Christmas Eve, for guaranteed delivery when the nut roast has run out, and guaranteed good times.
By Laura, Copywriter at allplants